Erfahrungsberichte

Marina mi ha offerto uno spazio sicuro e amorevole esprimere quello che era vivo in ​me. Nella mia vita avevo avuto esperienza della rabbia sopratutto come un'emozione ​distruttiva da non comunicare, ragionavo e vivevo quindi secondo una vecchia mappa ​della rabbia. Non avevo ancora avuto la possibilità di sentire che la rabbia, se ascoltata, ​accolta e vissuta nel profondo è un'emozione ricca di possibilità. Ma soprattutto la ​rabbia può essere comunicata in modo amorevole, autentico ed efficace.

Laura has an artful way of holding space for what's alive in the field to influence the structure of the container. Participating in her 3-week online Rage Club for Women experience gave me a deeper felt knowing of my truth. Thank you Goddess Laura, and thank you to the epic group of women who she attracts into her containers! You should work with Laura if you are ready to shed some of your layers of protection in order to uncover more of the potent and powerful gem that you are! Thank you Laura for inviting out the emergence of authentic power. I am grateful for the epicness you are helping to birth in our world!

Fue buenísimo el espacio de ayer, noche me quedé soñando con ustedes, seguíamos haciendo ejercicios, practicando... Había un círculo de muchos animales alrededor de nosotros, viéndonos, reconociéndonos, sintiéndonos.
y en agún momento Gabriela y yo estábamos acompañando un parto juntas, en realidad ella lo estaba atendiendo y yo la acompañaba y le daba algunas observaciones. Fue muy interesante, como si Gabriela estuviera muy puesta para atender parto y yo estuviera ahí para apoyarla.

Quién sabe... los sueños, qué se presenta.. por qué, pero por lo pronto agradezco mucho todo lo que estoy sintiendo, agradezco este grupo, y me agradezco a mí porque no me quiero dejar morir...

During the last Rage Club I set boundaries with my father during a standing Rage Hold:

- I no longer accept men threatening to physically hurt me or actually physically hurting me.
- I feel and express my anger and set boundaries with men.
- I stop saving men from feeling shame and pain.

I celebrate that.

I have been going to rage club with Gabriela Fagundes for about 4 weeks. I have been learning how to get in touch with and express my anger but I often encounter blocks. Fear of what others with think. I have a heart time letting it all out.

Today during the I hate practice I was able to let it all out. I was also able to connect my anger to my words in a way I haven’t in a long time. It felt different to be able to say I hate with clarity and power. Sometimes I have said I hate… in a way that gives away my power and feels helpless. This new way felt so good. I hate changing myself for other people and trying to make others comfortable! I am done giving a fuck. I hate not having good male role models. I hate how suppressed I am and how suppressed so many people are. I hate how boring life is. I hate drama, I hate mold and having to spend all my money on my health… and more and more. I let it all out.

I felt my energetic body and physical body change, become more powerful, more clear more present and direct. I felt myself transform. It felt like when I was younger and was learning karate from one of the best karate masters in NYC. I felt so alive. I will bring this back into my life. Into my boundaries and decisions and interactions with other people.

For so long I had a lot of anger but didn’t know what to do with it. I had the story that it was useless since situations that made me angry have past. I couldn’t change the past situation but I had this anger and didn’t know what to do with it. I didn’t know how to let it go. I now have a new way of being with it that feels good. My anger was hurting me, making me feel small, making me hate myself, making me not trust people and putting a wall between me and others. I am very grateful for finding this other way. This new way of using my anger to find clarity and to protect and empower me and show me new information. I have been searching for a long time.

I deeply appretiate your spaceholding qualities Gabriela. The balance of sword and chocolate, you didn’t let people away with things yet people also felt supported and ‘held’.

You also used your anger and fear to notice small signals from the team.. especially if they had an impulse and supported them to speak up. You empower people to take back their agency. And this Rage Club for me was about leaving school. I learned for the first time to interrupt people.

I thought the experiments you brought there was a wide variety of experience. A big Go for experimenting with allowing what came from the group .

I was particularly impressed with how you supported the conversation around sexual energy in the last session. .. it was a testament to the supportive environment that grew from this group and the collaboration created .. that these men were able to verbalise their fears around this topic and also feel the support from the women

Your passion shines so bright and so strong. Massive GO!

Rage club brought me on a journey where my relationship with anger changed significantly. Jacopo along with two other space holders guided me step by step in experiments where I discovered how anger is a neutral energy and super versatile. It can be used consciously to create grounding, presence, clarity, intimacy, boundaries, to name a few.

The space inspired me to be vulnerable, to go deeper in my experiences and to bring me to some of my edges. One of the layers it exposed is how I used to avoid anger. For instance out of fear for loud angry voices, for other men or how I had learned that anger is bad.

Jacopo held the space in a grounded, focussed and calm way which made it safe and inviting to be open hearted and gradually built the connection and intimacy with the other men over the four weeks. It was serious, fun and playful, all of that!
Very inspiring and such a necessity in the culture I live in.

Laura’s rage club was a game-changer for me. Before, I used to suppress my anger, burying it deep down. In our sessions, I realized the stories I had around anger, and ways in which I turned it inward toward myself. Throughout the four weeks, I learned to tap into my conscious anger, which brought clarity around what really matters to me and confidence to use my voice, set boundaries, and shape my world the way I want it. It was eye-opening and inspiring to be with a group of women who embrace their rage and use it as a force for creation. By the end of the four weeks, I walked away having reclaimed my voice, my power, and my anger.